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Your Need for Certainty Is Keeping You Stuck

Tony RobbinsJune 7, 202611m
In a Nutshell

The core message is that an addiction to certainty—rooted in "blue" level thinking that reduces life to black-and-white rules—creates inner conflict, rejects growth, and blocks spiritual evolution by making the protective "wall" also a prison. True progress requires moving beyond this rigid consciousness to embrace complexity, uncertainty, and personal testing of experience, as seen in higher levels like orange. The key takeaway is that certainty is not evidence of spiritual maturity but ego-driven fear, and freedom comes from choosing flexibility over being locked into one way of seeing the world.

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In the primary question closed eye process, exercises are based on pleasure and pain. When you put a lot of pain and magnify it, you reject your guidance and reject that God inside of you that was doing good things for you. When you do it consistently, you create uncertainty for the future because if you reject your past, you cannot really live in the future.

Your first limiting belief is that if you look at consequences in the past that you contributed to, that somehow shows that God did something wrong.

The need being met is certainty. The person got themselves where they felt certain, then questioned it and felt uncertain. People are addicted to certainty because they try to be certain and then make up a whole story about it.

God is available all the time. God is breathing through you. There are no mistakes if we learn from them. But if we do not learn from them, then they are mistakes and we will have another one. God does not interfere with your choices. You can override God's flow.

There is value in every experience. Life is always happening for us. But how it happens for us is we figure how to use it. Faith without works is dead. If you are just going to have faith and not do anything, those are the people that keep saying God is going to save them and they send the helicopter and send the bus and send the boat and they die. That is what you are doing right now out of your need for certainty.

You do not need to play the black and white, this or that, right or wrong game. You are living in the same level of consciousness that created the pain and that will not solve it. That is why the person is still in pain. The person wants to find an external reason for the pain and says they followed the instructions and the instructions made them do something which denies God.

Life is not black and white. There are so many shades. Duality is part of life. Two things can be true at the same time. But if you want it to be only one way, you want the simple route. God is calling you by making you uncomfortable to wake up that life is more complex than this simple thing you want so you can settle for certainty.

Blue is about certainty first. Blue reduces everything to this or that. Life is not this or that. God is not so limited as this or that. If you are blue, you believe it does and you get very uptight with a lot of tension in your body if you think anything other than that.

There is nothing wrong with blue. There are principles to blue. There is loyalty in blue. There is a commitment to a higher standard in blue. There is a commitment to God in blue. But the limitation to blue is it takes everything and reduces it to this or that.

Purple tries to find certainty through rituals, the tribe, and being around someone to protect them. Red finds certainty in anger and domination. Red wants not just certainty but also significance. The only reason you leave red to go to blue is because either a bigger red comes along, you are aging, or you have done everything you know how to do as that king and there has got to be more.

The more is hereafter. The desire is to be king forever. So the rules for doing that are sought. Now it is about certainty and significance and a little bit of connection, but only connection to what complies with those rules, and everything else is judged as harshly as you judge yourself.

You are not judging the process. You want to judge something because you judge yourself so much, and that makes you most uncertain. You cannot solve a problem with the same level of consciousness that created it.

The next level of consciousness allows certainty never experienced before. In this level, there is no fear of talking or disagreeing. Blue drives the need for certainty through a PhD from Stanford and driving to build your own system. But there are going to be contradictions when the operating principle is this or that, good or bad, right or wrong.

In a different level of consciousness, contradictions would not be seen as contradictions at all. Instead, you would see it as complementary because God is providing all this, and by seeing consequences, the brain can say we are not going to go there. That is how the brain has learned everything so that you stay in center with God.

Blues are very certain. Blues are not afraid. They will go to war with other people. They will kill people over the name of God. That is how certain they are. Certainty is not evidence of spiritual evolution. It is the ego hanging on for dear life. Ego is fear.

The contradiction is to try to find certainty by hanging on to a model of the world that makes you feel more certain, so you are pulled towards it because it makes you feel good. Anything that contradicts it should get rid of. When you are in it, you are like a fish in water and you are addicted to it.

Blues will sit there in the face of absolute reality and deny it, even die on the cross for it. This refers to somebody saying this is what is true and that is how it is going to be. Love is a lot more powerful. So is growth, and there is no growth available in blue beyond where you are right now.

Blue has been growth from where you were. That is why you like it. If you stay in your blue, you will have continued contradictions and inner battles and fights. Eventually, you will get tired of that and move up. People do not move to another level of consciousness until they pretty much have to. Most people in a lifetime move one level, two max.

When you arm yourself and protect yourself with certainty of this is how it is, that wall that protects you is the one that is imprisoning you. It feels good right now but it will not eventually. All colors are valuable. The goal is to have a position of choice so you will have a much better life.

The ability to move between levels gives more than protection. It gives freedom. Being locked into certainty shows total weakness inside. It shows fear. There is nothing wrong with having fear and weakness, but the cure for weakness is pushing through the pain of uncertainty and being open to something else instead of being so locked into what makes you feel good.

Blue is awesome to use in business and technology. Elon Musk is using blue every single day with the scientific method. That is why he was able to figure out how to buy Twitter.

Blue is not the scientific method. Blue is a set of rules that someone told you and you just accepted them. The scientific method is you go out and test it. When you are in blue, you are following these rules blindly so you can be certain and know you are a good enough person and everything is right and anybody else is wrong. You defend yourself from those people.

Orange goes that they are tired of living something someone else taught years ago. They want their own experience of God. Let me try something. Let me test. Let me see. That is not blue. There is no ounce of blue that is the scientific method. In fact, you cannot use the scientific method and stay blue. It is completely opposite consciousness.

People get stuck in orange where everything has to be tested and proved. Compete to know. If you do better than someone else then that is the right one. But you can do better than someone else and it might be the right one for the moment but not sustainable.

People might get stuck in green where we are all equals. Then nothing gets done because we are not all equals. You are superior to me in some ways. I am going to be superior to you in some ways. That is a fact because you have lived a different life than I have.

When you do with your levels of consciousness, do not look at someone that way. Look at them as a brother who is going through the same steps just in a different way, at a different time, in a different phase.

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