Back to Jay Shetty Podcast

How to Handle Pressure When the Whole Crowd Is Against You | US OPEN, Djokovic, Sabalenka, Osaka

Jay Shetty PodcastAugust 29, 20261h 18m
Topics71
Winning Back-to-Back US Opens0:00Struggles of the Season0:30Processing Losses1:31Not Watching Lost Finals2:33First Point of Contact After Matches3:30Inner Dialogue and Self-Talk4:30Embracing the Pressure6:01Acceptance Over Resistance6:30Early Career Mindset Shift7:32Losing Father as Defining Moment8:00Grieving Process9:31Life's Uncontrollable Events11:01Definition of Success11:30Days When You Don't Want to Practice13:01Near-Quitting Experience14:01Challenges as Growth Opportunities15:31Building Confidence Through Process16:31Mental Health Journey Reflection17:00Father's Training Blueprint18:32First Grand Slam Win Experience20:00Processing First Slam Win22:02Motherhood's Impact23:30Detaching Self-Worth from Athletic Performance25:17The Process of Identity Separation26:02Competing Against Former Self vs. Embracing the Present27:02Goals Beyond Winning Trophies28:00Honesty in Press Conferences29:00Accepting Thoughts Rather Than Resisting Them30:00Self-Discovered Meditation Practice31:01Setting and Achieving the Goal of Retiring Their Mother32:31Finding New Deeply Rooted Goals34:02Thoughts on Their Daughter Playing Tennis34:30Mental Health During the French Open Break35:00The Olympics Changing Their Mindset36:32The Breaking Point Leading to Withdrawal37:01The Courage to Take a Break39:34Society's Definition Through Career41:02Novak Djokovic's Holistic Approach to Tennis42:02Early Education Beyond Tennis43:01Understanding Tennis as More Than Physical45:00Expanding Spiritual and Physical Practices46:00The Ongoing Journey of Self-Work47:00The Duality of Motivation49:33Testing Mental and Physical Limits51:01Longevity in Professional Tennis51:23Pushing Personal Limits52:01Environmental Impact on Habits53:01Reinventing Yourself54:30Goal Setting and Achievement55:01Support System and Criticism56:01Career Management and Platform Expansion57:01Internal Inadequacy and Motivation57:30Early Awareness of Not Being Enough58:32Survival Motivation1:00:01Father's Sacrifices and Support1:00:31Borrowing Money for Tennis Career1:02:00Divine Intervention and Faith1:04:00Connection to Higher Power1:06:02Processing Losses1:07:30Value of Solitude1:09:02Overcoming Injuries1:09:30Breaking Personal Promises1:10:31Playing Through Knee Injury1:11:31Recovery Timeline and Determination1:12:31Using Challenge as Motivation1:14:01Creating Internal Competition1:14:32Hostile Environments as Fuel1:15:30Injury vs Hostile Environment1:16:30Mental Transformation Technique1:17:34Using Crowd Noise as Personal Fuel1:18:06Creating Your Own Reality1:18:33
In a Nutshell

Naomi Osaka and Novak Djokovic both reveal that accepting difficult emotions—nerves, grief, self-doubt—instead of resisting them prevents those feelings from growing stronger and frees mental energy for competition. They credit early holistic training, daily solitude practices (meditation, visualization, journaling), and supportive “inner circles” that include both cheerleaders and honest critics for building the resilience needed to convert hostile crowds, injuries, or losses into fuel. Ultimately, success is redefined as consistent discipline and identity beyond rankings: showing up every day, setting service-driven goals like retiring a parent, and continually reinventing oneself rather than chasing past shadows or external validation.

AI-Generated Notes

These notes were generated by AI and may contain inaccuracies.

Winning a Grand Slam every time is an incredible feeling. This year's victory felt like the first time because of the struggles faced during the season. The win brought significant relief after the beauty of the achievement.

The season included two Grand Slam finals in Australia and Paris, both lost while considered the favorite. The losses were tough lessons that felt like the dream slipped away. This trophy represents learning those lessons and becoming a better player with improved emotional control.

Losing in the final hurts more because you're so close to the dream. The emotional response includes wanting to leave the place immediately to forget, followed by needing time to sit back and analyze the lessons. It takes time to process losses.

Never watching the lost finals personally. The team reviews the tennis aspects and brings feedback about what went wrong technically. The mental and emotional mistakes are already known. The reason for avoiding watching is not wanting to see oneself losing and seeing poor behavior. Watching would trigger pain and push the wound rather than allow learning from it.

Running to the team first because they put in the work. Hugging the boyfriend first, then the team, recognizing the constant conversation and support involved.

Feeling nervous before big tournaments is absolutely normal for every athlete. The preparation involves being ready to handle anything rather than trying to make nervous thoughts go away. The approach is accepting that it's okay to feel nervous and to think those thoughts, recognizing that everyone experiences this.

Sign in to read the full notes

Get access to AI-generated notes, topic timestamps, and more.