Why Men Are At The Top Of Society (and the bottom) - Roy Baumeister
In a Nutshell
Cultures flourish by exploiting men's greater expendability, risk-taking, and group-forming tendencies to build large systems, institutions, and achievements, while women excel in one-to-one relationships and emotional expressiveness—placing men disproportionately at society's tops (leaders, geniuses) and bottoms (homeless, prisoners, casualties) due to higher male variability in traits like intelligence and ambition. Evolutionary pressures drive men to extreme competition for mates via hierarchy, novelty-seeking (e.g., Coolidge effect), and sacrifice, contrasting women's safer strategies and lower ambition on average; modern feminism overlooks these trade-offs, eroding male motivation and polarity in relationships. Willpower functions as a depletable resource (ego depletion), improved via monitoring and practice like a muscle, with glucose aiding restoration—challenging replication crisis claims and unlimited-willpower myths.
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Cultures flourish by exploiting men. Men are more expendable than women for basic biological reasons. If a small group loses half its men, the next generation can still be full size. If it loses half its women, recovery takes a long time. Cultures risk men and put them to work to produce things. Most structures of society are created by men. Carol Hooven at Harvard mentioned a feminist who had an epiphany looking out the window: "The whole world is built by men. Look at the buildings and the roads and the cars." This includes the physical world and institutions like banks, schools, armies, governments, and marketplaces.
Women do plenty of wonderful things and are important partners in species flourishing, but creating large social systems is the men's job. Cultures compete against other cultures, mostly groups of men competing against other groups of men. Women have joined groups in many places, but institutional structures were created by men.
Men are overrepresented as builders cognitively, systemically, and physically because men do those things, and women don't. Socializing occurs one-to-one or in large groups. In social psychology, people said women are more social than men due to investment in one-to-one relationships. But men do things in groups much more than women, likely an innate tendency.
The most important biological relationship is mother-to-child, a one-to-one relationship. Women got particular men to form one-to-one relationships to protect and provide, enabling larger brains. Men do things in larger groups. Competition between groups is men against men, on the battlefield, in business, or scientifically.
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