Steven Kotler + Become the Best Version of Yourself
In a Nutshell
Steven Kotler outlines peak performance as aligning biology via motivation (stack curiosity, passion, purpose, autonomy, mastery), three-tiered goals (massively transformative purpose, high hard goals, clear daily lists), six levels of grit, creativity, and flow to achieve the "impossible"—chaining small-i wins into capital-I breakthroughs. Essential daily habits include 7-8 hours sleep, hydration, nutrition, social support, gratitude, breathwork, and exercise; primary flow activities boost creativity 400-700% and reset stress. *The Art of the Impossible* provides a sequenced playbook with 6 daily + 7 weekly micro-practices to build a "habit of ferocity," turning anxiety into curiosity for effortless high output.
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Peter introduces Steven Kotler as a New York Times best-selling author, award-winning journalist, executive director of the Flow Research Collective, and leading expert in human performance. Author of nine bestsellers out of 13 books total, three co-authored with Peter including The Art of the Impossible, The Future is Faster Than You Think (January release), Stealing Fire, The Rise of Superman, Bold, and Abundance. Work nominated for two Pulitzer Prizes, translated into 40 languages, appeared in over 100 publications including New York Times Magazine, Wired, Atlantic Monthly, Time, Harvard Business Review. Co-host of Flow Research Collective Radio (top 10 iTunes science podcast) with wife Joy Nicholson. Co-founder of Rancho de Chihuahua, a hospice and special needs dog sanctuary.
The Art of the Impossible is a peak performance primer and how-to guide to maximizing human cognitive performance, based on 30 years of research into flow and cognitive peak performance. Everything learned, systemized, sequenced into a practical playbook anyone can use to level up, specifically designed to help pursue high hard goals. If operating at peak possible performance already, no need for the book.
Peak human performance is getting biology to work for us rather than against us. Biology offers a limited set of tools: motivational tools get you into the game, learning tools keep you in the game, creativity/creative problem solving tools help steer, flow skills amplify everything beyond reasonable expectations. Cognitive peak performance encompasses this suite.
Most people falsely assume they are healthy and operating at peak performance. Research from 30 years studying extraordinary achievers shows everyone is capable of much more than they know. Few start extraordinary; it's about what you do with what you're given. Human potential is invisible, especially to ourselves. Example: Professional basketball player doesn't know if they'll like or be good at lacrosse until trying it. Human potential emerges when pushing skills to the utmost repeatedly.
Book draws from 30 years of research, thousands interviewed. Highlights lessons from 10-15 people including Peter Diamandis, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, athletes like Laird Hamilton, Kristen Ulmer, Mike Joyner, late Anders Ericsson, and leaders in peak performance.
'Impossible' means capital-I Impossible (never been done) or small-i impossible (no clear path from A to B, low odds of success). Examples of small-i: rising from poverty, overcoming trauma, becoming world-class, successful entrepreneurship, getting your first kiss at age 9-12. Tools are the same. Achievers of capital-I Impossible usually chain small-i impossibles until capital-I becomes next in line.
Laird Hamilton anecdote: People see him on 50-foot wave at 33 and think impossible, but he started at 3 years old on 3-foot waves, progressing incrementally (e.g., last week on 49.5-foot wave, so 50-foot is just 6 inches bigger).
Peak performance tools apply whether pursuing capital-I, small-i, or easier Monday at work—same limited set gets biology working for you.
Books exist on grit, focus, flow, etc., but The Art of the Impossible offers a coherent system from neurobiology of flow, showing how components work together in specific sequence (evolution-shaped). Proper sequencing fights cognitive demons and biases.
Peak performance sequence:
- Motivation gets into the game.
- Learning keeps you there.
- Creativity helps steer.
- Flow amplifies.
Motivation splits into extrinsic (money, sex, fame) and intrinsic (curiosity, passion, purpose, autonomy). Start with extrinsic to meet safety/security needs plus leftover (Daniel Kahneman research)—anxiety blocks optimization. Money motivates well but only up to a point (lower than expected); beyond that, extrinsic fails, intrinsic takes over.
Google employee research confirms. Economic correlation: Happiness and money rise together to $75,000/year household income (study ~10 years ago, adjust for inflation), then diverge. After basics (food, AC, transport, internet) plus discretionary (weekly dinner, bookstore), shift to intrinsic.
Curiosity is foundational intrinsic motivator: experiences generating norepinephrine + dopamine. Intersect 3-5 curiosities with successes = passion (biological recipe: lots of norepinephrine + dopamine).
Demystify passion/purpose: not mystical, but about levers of attention and action forming habits.
Brain is 25% of energy, 2% body mass (at rest, daydreaming); high-hard thinking burns more. Curiosity/passion give focus for free (automatic attention, like falling in love). Neurochemistry: Norepinephrine (anxiety/excitement spectrum, causes twitchiness/hypervigilance); dopamine (reward, meaning-making, addictive like social media).
Passion = multiple curiosities intersecting. Purpose = passion attached to problem greater than self. Workbook at passionrecipe.com (interactive for curiosity → passion → purpose).
Purpose attracts others (links to massively transformative purpose or MTP). System then craves autonomy (freedom to pursue; data shows required amount for energy boost), then mastery (skills for purpose).
Big five intrinsic motivators: curiosity, passion, purpose, autonomy, mastery. Peak performers stack them (like athletes stack fuel: fats, proteins, carbs, hydration) all pointing same direction for max free energy, least effort, highest performance.
Goal-directed systems; without goals, fears/anxieties dominate reality-shaping (senses gather 11 million bits/sec + internal thoughts). Start with massively transformative purpose (MTP: life mission, e.g., "write books that change the world").
Underneath: high hard goals (1-5 year substeps, e.g., journalism school, magazine job, write book). Bottom: clear goals (daily to-do lists). Specific ways to set each.
Goal-setting theory (John Locke, Gary Latham): Properly set high hard goals boost motivation 11-25% (e.g., 2 free hours in 8-hour day).
Without a target, you'll miss it every time.
Overarching goal guides daily micro-decisions (eat, drink, talk, emails). Goals/fears shape reality.
Consciousness processes 2,000 inputs per second at best, down to 160-100 for some. 60 bits is one person talking, 120 bits for two, 180 bits for three—most people's maximum attention. Most of reality is missed, filtered by fears and goals. Example: Driving a familiar street, never noticing a restaurant until hungry—goals shape perceptions, letting relevant details in. Missing details means opportunity cost for achieving goals.
"Your eyes only see and your ears only hear what you're looking for." —Dan Sullivan
Fears (amygdala) also filter perceptions.
Grit formula follows goals. Peak performers train six levels of grit: physical grit, cognitive grit (control thoughts, avoid negative self-rumination), grit to be your best when at your worst (train differently). Example: Writing a speech, then delivering it exhausted—after poor sleep, full workday, gym, hiking a mountain with dogs.
Speaker's speech practice: Writes, practices on phone calls, uses flashcards (e.g., TED speech). Other speaker enters flow by setting one end-goal (audience feeling), improvising on stage (longevity, exponentials, moonshots)—best speeches this way. Extrovert vs. introvert differences; anxiety requires practice.
Website: theartofimpossible.com. Fun, readable book—not technical like prior flow/technology books. Written because extraordinary people (e.g., around Peter Diamandis, SU) trip over internal mindset issues, not external challenges. World needs these people solving big problems (e.g., water in Africa); book fixes brain for peak performance.
Increasing cognitive output/intelligence efficiency has massive impact for individuals, companies, communities, countries.
Book ends with onboarding practices, 6 daily things (many 5-minute micro-tasks), 7 weekly things. Small additions/efficiencies yield massive leveling up—like Tim Ferriss's 4-Hour Workweek.
Align intrinsic motivation, three levels of goal-setting, train grit skills → habit of ferocity: automatic instinct to lean into challenges. Most people: 5 minutes mental agitation per problem. Peak performers: instant action, no dithering. Average 5 decent-sized problems/day = 25 minutes/day, 3.5 hours/week, 3.5 weeks/year saved via compound interest.
Mental flip for problems: "Oh good, this means I'm alive," or "Finally, a problem worthy of me."
Anxiety and curiosity use same neurochemicals/brain parts. Mammals feel one or the other (e.g., vaccinating cows: curiosity distracts from fear). Humans can feel both, but cognitive reframing easily flips anxiety to curiosity with a phrase (e.g., fear → "challenge to rise to").
Peak performers embrace crawl, walk, run—no shortcuts (per Andrew Huberman). Everyone sucks initially when learning; unconscious training feels unpleasant regardless of skill level. Impatience from on-demand world crushes progress—do the work consistently.
No "three habits" shortcut—crawl, walk, run. Peak performers do 6 daily + 7 weekly things. Start with internal motivators: cultivate curiosity → passion → purpose.
Primary flow activity: Childhood/lifelong activity instantly inducing flow (skiing, skateboarding, surfing, model airplanes, gardening, horse riding, dog walking). Entrepreneurs often drop it—double down:
- Flow = optimal performance (motivation, productivity, creativity, learning up massively).
- Global nitric oxide release: resets nervous system, flushes stress, boosts immunology/feel-good chemicals → calms anxiety.
- Flow as focusing skill: easier work flow after.
- 400-700% creativity boost (Theresa Amabile, Harvard); lasts 1-2 days post-flow.
Boosts well-being, optimism, confidence, growth mindset.
Not speaker's expertise—focuses on neurobiology of flow, biology working for you.
12+ yes; kids flow-prone. Teens use for high school, SATs, college. Flow Research Collective: partners USC, UCLA, Stanford, Imperial College London; trains 1,000/month (US Special Forces to Fortune 100 CEOs to public). Largest neuroscience-based peak performance training org—biology scales for all, including kids.
Audible, ebook, Kindle (speaker didn't narrate).
Social support foundational. Aligns with biology. Aging insights: By 40, if work not curiosity/passion/purpose-aligned → cognitive issues. By 50, unforgiven wrongs limit well-being/creativity.
Not direct work, but hypnosis/flow links emerging. Self-hypnosis ≈ positive self-talk (good results).
For home: Clear goals list—start day with most important/hardest task (biggest win).
Accomplish the biggest win for your day and work backwards in intensity. Figure out how many things you can be excellent at in a day—that's how many items go on your clear goals list. If you can't be excellent at it, you shouldn't be doing it for peak performance. Run the experiment over a couple weeks. Anything that takes energy—difficult conversation with kids or spouse, going to the gym—goes on the clear goals list. Start with your hardest goal and work towards the easiest because willpower declines over time. Reset it with a good night's sleep or a big state-changing experience. Check everything off the list as you go. Working from home blends everything together with no separation, causing fatigue and no feeling of accomplishment. Artificially create accomplishment by checking off items—each gives a dopamine hit. With a clear goals list, you know when your day is done: "I finished everything on my list. My day is done. I won my day. I can relax." Recovery is important.
Double down on your primary flow activity because it has gone by the wayside for many during COVID. Most people are hypervigilant with too much anxiety—clear goals lower that.
Wake up, do meditation and quick workout, look at calendar, figure out most important actions. Create a list of things that make today amazing, cross them off for dopamine hit. Reflect on the day, think about wins, do gratitude practice at end of day.
Positive psychology identifies six basics: three physical for energy to meet the day's tasks, three cognitive for keeping anxiety in check.
- Sleep: 7-8 hours a night, non-negotiable. Those getting 5.5-6 hours are wrong. Test with 10-minute online cognitive performance test after 5 vs. 8 hours sleep—shocking difference in cognition. Dr. Matt Walker’s book Why We Sleep (featured at Abundance 360) cures misperceptions. Evolution would have reduced sleep if possible.
- Hydration: Drink lots of water.
- Nutrition: No one diet works for everybody—solve your way, but good quality needed.
- Social support: High-quality interactions with people you love who love you. Fights drain energy next day. Brain does risk assessment on problems: threat or opportunity? Key factor is posse—support network calms you. Personally, have one great conversation with wife and one with friend daily—5 minutes to an hour, with eye contact and mutual support.
Under normal conditions, screw up one a day and still perform well. In crisis or high stress, need all three every time.
Three best ways to stay relaxed:
- Daily gratitude practice (5 minutes or whatever).
- Respiration mindfulness/breath work (11-20 minutes a day regulates nervous system).
- Exercise (20-40 minutes; work out till quiet upstairs—releases nitric oxide, flushes stress hormones, same as front end of flow).
Normal conditions: one a day enough. Peak stress: two or three. Doing all three daily is perfect. No fixed three things—depends on day, stress, person. Do gratitude at end of day when life is good, first thing in morning (before writing, as coffee brews) when stressed—sets day beautifully. Gratitude often unrelated to business stuff.
Work with Dr. Glenn Fox (USC, world’s leading expert on neuroscience of gratitude) shows regular gratitude practitioners have much higher flow experiences—lowers anxiety, key for flow. Strong link between gratitude and high-flow lifestyle. More studies planned but paused due to COVID.
Pair The Art of Impossible with Peter Diamandis and Steven Kotler’s The Future Is Faster Than You Think—tech to level up plus cognitive skill set. David Epstein’s Range (phenomenal on peak performance, drawn from in book).
Learning section in book breaks down brain’s learning software. Speed reading doesn’t improve retention—it’s a lie. Speed listening (e.g., 1.75x, 2-3x) gets general ideas everyone else gets, misses detail, nuance, novelty, patterns—leads to same thinking as others, not creativity/entrepreneurship. Brain loves detail for pattern recognition and connecting ideas. Emphasis on clear goals, not just goals. Can train a little for speed/multitasking, but brains are serial processors—worse than doing one thing slowly. Rule: sometimes go slow to go fast.
Check The Art of Impossible at www.theartofimpossible.com or Audible (or www.passionrecipe.com). Abundance Digital webinar tomorrow (Friday, 12 noon) with Jason Ballard, CEO of Icon—3D printers for entire homes, multi-level, moon habitats. Used by New Story for 3D printing communities in Mexico. Join Abundance Digital community.
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