Pregnant at 14, DC's Top Cop at 39 — The Unbelievable Story of Cathy Lanier
In a Nutshell
Cathy Lanier, pregnant at 14 by a 26-year-old boyfriend, married him at 15 after running away, but separated soon after and returned home as a single mom with only a ninth-grade education. Driven by her son, she earned her GED at 16, juggled secretarial and waitressing jobs while lying about her age, and pursued community college via tuition reimbursement. At 23, she joined the DC Metropolitan Police amid the crack epidemic—scoring in the top 60 of 1,000 applicants—propelled by her mother's emphasis on education and stable public service careers, eventually rising to DC's top cop by 39.
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Went from talented and gifted student with straight A's to failing every subject the first quarter of seventh grade. Chronically truant, averaging 19 days a quarter in school. Mother unaware because school never notified her. By 6:00 p.m. when mother got home from work, pretended to do homework. Mother discovered midway through eighth grade due to failing all major subjects.
While skipping school, hung out with much older crowd, friends of older brother, getting in trouble. Fell in love with much older boyfriend, wanted to marry and run away. At 14 in ninth grade, became pregnant. Boyfriend (26 years old) gave diamond ring; engaged. Ran away to avoid mother having him arrested. Mind of a 14-year-old thought marriage and baby would work out.
Went to absent father to sign for marriage due to age; required one parent to sign over legal guardianship to husband. Father signed to reduce child support by $100 a month. Married the day after 15th birthday, eight months pregnant.
A year and a half later, back home. Mother took to GED classes at night, sneaking while still married (husband disapproved of school). After separation, mother ensured GED completion. Mother brought typewriter home, taught typing and shorthand at kitchen table. At 16, got secretary job, lied about age. Also worked as waitress in bar evenings, lied about age. Worked two jobs for several years. Motivation was son.
Never babysat or held a baby before. Son was good baby; crib at end of bed. Woke to him looking at her patiently, not crying. Three weeks in, realized she was a parent and helpless baby relied completely on her. Husband hadn't allowed school; with ninth grade education, couldn't get job or provide. Aha moment: son's life depends on her; ninth grade education provides not much.
With ninth grade education as single mom at 16-17, zero chance to care for son. Passed GED with 256 (needed 255). Mother stressed education and work. Wanted college to avoid son in crappy neighborhoods and schools. Stood in food stamp line at Prince George's Plaza building with son, same as with mother as kid; determined not her path. Secretary job offered tuition reimbursement; started community college, one class per semester.
Family public service: father firefighter, oldest brother firefighter out of high school, other brother police officer. At 23, working secretary job, one class per semester, trying to get son in private school. Saw full-page Washington Post ad for Metropolitan Police Department hiring; half page on tuition reimbursement (currently paying for one class/semester, would take 30 years for degree). Early 1990s, DC crack cocaine wars, 500 murders/year, murder capital. Stood in line with friend among 1,000 applicants; scored 60th out of 1,000. Only white female in room; DC 89% African-American. Hired 1990. Drive same as mother's: son needs provision via good government job and degree. Started walking foot beat; first day post-academy was Mount Pleasant riots, worked 5 days straight without going home.
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