Their parents left for work and never came home: From the 9/11 archives
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Children who lost parents on 9/11 recount their final phone calls and last moments with fathers who went to work and never returned. Families preserve memories through birthday cakes, saved voicemail messages, and everyday traditions, while children grapple with missing fathers at graduations, weddings, and life milestones. The lasting pain centers on the void of a parent who would have guided them through life's key moments, now replaced only by memories.
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An estimated 10,000 children lost a parent on September 11th. Parents left for work that morning and never returned. Danielle Spinelli, age 8, recalls her father Frank Spinelli kissing his children goodbye each morning. Frank had told his daughter Nicole that he kissed the children goodbye to ensure they would always know he loved them if anything happened to him at work.
Frank Spinelli worked as a foreign exchange broker at the World Trade Center. He spent weekends shuttling his children to soccer, lacrosse, and football activities. When the first plane hit, he called his wife Michelle to reassure her: "Hi, honey. It's me. Plane hit the building. Um I'm okay. Uh the building's on fire. We're trying to get out. I love you. I'll see you later." Frank was found in the wreckage two weeks before his 45th birthday. The family continued their tradition of baking him a birthday cake that year.
Danielle expressed that the attackers took her father away for no good reason. She believes that if the attackers had met her father, they would have changed their minds about their actions. She noted the difficulty everyone faces in understanding why such an event occurred.
Tyler and Kelsey Williams said goodbye to their father, US Army Major Dwayne Williams, at Arlington National Cemetery. The family had moved to the Washington area just three months prior when Dwayne began his new job at the Pentagon. Kelsey, age 13, and Tyler, age 17, wrote about their father after his death. Tyler wrote about feeling his father's pain on his heart and touching his father's face as if he were beside him. Kelsey wrote about being unable to picture life without her father and feeling that the devil had picked her worst fear from her mind.
Mike Shaw, age 16, now helps care for his sister Nicole and mother Debbie after his father Jeff's death. Jeff worked as an electrician in the World Trade Center. When the first plane hit, Debbie called Jeff's cell phone, and he described the darkness, smoke, and poor visibility. After the second plane hit, she called again and heard him running, out of breath, saying "Bye. Bye. I love you. Goodbye." The family keeps Jeff's cell phone connected to hear his voice and leave messages. Mike calls before bed to tell his father about his day at school and dinner.
Brendan Regan helped his Little League team win the district championship game in July. His father, New York firefighter Lieutenant Bobby Regan, was coaching. Brendan got the hit that won the game—a single that drove in the winning run. Brendan recalls his father saying "Nice hit" after the game. The team received their championship award on Saturday. Lieutenant Bobby Regan left behind his wife Donna of 21 years, 12-year-old Brendan, and 16-year-old daughter Caitlyn. Caitlyn expressed gratitude that her father spent significant time with the family rather than working late nights.
Zachary Zion's father Chuck worked at Cantor Fitzgerald and had been present during the 1993 World Trade Center attack. Chuck helped colleagues evacuate from the 104th floor, which took nearly three hours in 1993. When Zachary saw the building collapse, he knew it was unlikely anyone made it out, as 90 minutes was insufficient time to descend 104 floors. Chuck enjoyed cooking, football, and golf. Zachary plans to work at Cantor Fitzgerald following his father's path. He expressed gratitude for the time he had with his father compared to younger children who won't know their parents as well.
Frank Spinelli's younger children lost key years they would have spent learning from their father. They expected him to attend high school graduations, walk daughters down the aisle at weddings, and meet grandchildren. One child recalled using a lawn mower tip from their father that helped start the machine. The inability to call someone "dad" again was identified as particularly painful. The memory of running to greet their father at the door and receiving his kiss remains a cherished recollection.
Families preserve memories through birthday cakes, cell phone messages, smiles, and the crack of a baseball bat. These children of September wrap themselves in memories against the loss of love that ended too soon.
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