Tony Robbins Helps Her Break Free From a Lifetime of Trauma | Full Intervention
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Tony Robbins guides Shen through releasing decades of trauma from childhood abandonment, molestation, and her mother's emotional absence, showing her that the pain lives only in her retold story, not in her body. He teaches that repeating the victim narrative strengthens it and becomes an addiction that filters every relationship through fear of abandonment, while the path out is to stop revisiting it entirely and replace it with the truth that she is lovable and capable of love. The key actions are forgiving her mother by seeing the events had nothing to do with her, burning the old story, and committing to bring her present strong self into new relationships instead of the wounded past version.
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Pain is often made up in our heads. It's all the meanings we've made up, most of which are not usually true. Shen shares that she always tells herself that people don't love her, when actually they do love her, and this gives her an excuse to cut off relationships and go away. Tony Robbins asks what if they never left, what if they actually did love her. Only you can make your life better right now by divorcing your story and marrying the truth of who you are today, your amazing soul and spirit. You deserve the happiness that's coming, but you have to free yourself of telling that story.
Shen is from Malaysia. She flew more than 24 hours to be there, hundreds of thousands of miles away. This is the first time she is speaking in front of 680 nationalities. She is going to show her scar, her pain for her breakthrough from the past two exercises. There is pleasure on the other side of the pain. Pain leads to relief, and then pleasure. The secret is pain, relief, and pleasure. Everyone has a strategy for letting go, but not many people are clear about it. If she gets enough pain, that jars her. Then there's something about the truth that sets her free and gives her relief, and all of a sudden what's replaced is joy or pleasure or happiness or love.
We forget about moving through pain because we don't want to go through it. But if we don't go through the pain, we don't go through life. You don't have to stay in the pain. You don't have to suffer. But we do have to push through the pain. The pain is often made up in our heads. It's all the meanings we've made up. Most of which are not usually true. They may look true on the surface, but they're not true.
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